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Anonymous: so I'm in 8th grade and I love my boyfriend and am thinking about losing my virginity to him. I still need time, but when I'm ready- if I'm ready, am I too young?

I think 8th grade is very very young. I waited until Sophomore year and that is still super young. If you are ready I am not the one to stop you but I think you should wait longer.

2 weeks ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: okay so i rly wna have sex but im just so afraid of getting pregnant, any advice? x x

birth control, condoms, he can pull out. make sure you are 110% ready for it, if you have any doubts at all, then dont do it 

2 weeks ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: To that 15 year old; nineteen and still a Virgin just because I want it to be with the right person. Don't do it just to do it, wait.

exactly! no, i dont regret who I lost my virginity to, but yes, i do wish I waited longer because I am no longer with him. Don’t rush it and don’t do it just because other people are, it is a big deal and you don’t just want to throw it away, you want it to be something special 

3 weeks ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: okay so i really like this guy but its awkward between us when we go to talk in person but on fb its fine, any help?

I know how that can be, just try hanging out and talking and just trying to really get to know eachother. or talk on facebook more and maybe get his number and you can text and get closer and when you hang out it wont be so bad:) im sure eventually you will warm up to eachother and it won’t be awkward 

3 weeks ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: i'm 15, should i have sex?

thats when i lost my virginity… but honestly waiting is always better, you want to make sure it is someone you care about and that its not just to get it over with. also make sure you are 100% ready, if you have any doubt about it then just wait, it will eventually happen, you don’t have to do it now

3 weeks ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: so i got my period last summer and my boobs havent grown at all and my sister and me got it at like the same time and her boobs grew ao much after she got it. whats going on?

sometimes your boobs don’t grow… it may take time and sometime in your life you will probably start birth control and that makes them grow, dont worry about it they will grow!! 

3 weeks ago with 0 notes

okay so basically I have this friend and i do like her i definately don’t hate her but sometimes she does annoy me and my other friends. one science lesson me and 2 of my other friends were i suppose bitching about her and someone in my science set told her. so now she’s not talking to me or any of my friends. i sent her a text saying that i’m sorry and that i do love her and i don’t expect her to forgive me because i was a bitch. i would rather have told her in person but i doubt she wants to talk to me or anyone else. dont think that i was being a fake friend because i do love her and i do regret what i said but my question is there anything else i can do to let her know i love her and i’m sorry? also i have a lot of lessons with her and it’s going to be very awkward so if you could reply asap i’d appreciate it, thanks (: 


So sorry this took a while to respond, I have been dealing with some stuff myself…  But if you haven’t sorted things out just keep apologizing to her, tell her you are sorry, ask to have a sleepover or hang out, get her starbucks before school and when you see her in the hall hand it to her and say you are sorry. I’m not saying to “buy her back” but if you find ways to truly show you are sorry and you care about her and wish she would forgive you, I’m sure that eventually she will. 

1 month ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: I'm in year 9, and I really quite like this guy in year 10. He's in one of my electives and he's so perfect :( he thinks I'm attractive and stuff but he only wants to go for hook ups and I'm not sure i want only that, help xx

you could always talk and be friends, maybe hook up here and there if you are with him, and maybe as you talk more and more feelings could happen, just don’t go into it with high hopes he will be yours and in a month or 2 if he still only wants hook ups then maybe he isn’t the guy and you should just move on. you can always just have this cute guy to have a crush on haha, like an actor, you have a crush on them, but you know you won’t be with them! But you can always try, you never know maybe he’ll eventually like you and get feelings. and you’re only in 9th grade, you don’t want to rush a boyfriend. I had a boyfriend from grade 9-11 and I wish i didn’t date so young because i could of had fun and been hooking up, but oh well haha 

1 month ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: Ok does that mean that the next time he fingers me it wont hurt? Because i dont think the hole got any bigger..

It may hurt a little bit but as you get fingered more and more you will stretch out 

1 month ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: Yeah he def got it in the right hole just it hurt and ive tried to put in a tampon before and it wont go idk if thats cus it was dry or whatever, but yesterday the red stopped so he mughtve broken my cherry, but his finger wasnt bloody so idk.

sometimes it pops and it just takes a while for you to bleed, im sure thats what happened, be thankful thats lucky, you won’t have to deal with it during sex 

2 months ago with 0 notes